this is the best
omg i just
sexuality isn’t like MATH i
it’s not always 1 + 2 = 3 like being a dude + anal sex = gay and ‘nope that’s it forever and always that’s the only equation that works bye’
and it’s not there’s no set of equations that decide that stuff ok
you can be in love and have sex
you can be in love and not have sex
you can have sex and not be in love!!!!!!!
you don’t even have to have any feelings at ALL!
and all of these are valid things!!!
because sexuality isn’t black and white and for a lot of people it goes plenty deeper than what kind of bits they have and where they are sticking those bits in relation to other people
yeah it’d be nice to have a little box to tick and be confident about that tick every single time but there isn’t and you definitely shouldn’t try to tick things off for other people
how is this post ending